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Divorce – Is it a solution?

How many of you who are reading this thinks that divorce is something very simple to be done? Well first of all i am not married,but planning to be married in the next 9 weeks, anyway thats not the topic here today. During the weekend my uncle & aunty who lives in Johor Bharu came to do visit us. So as usual we had our chat, how are you? how is business and all that.

Then there i was sitting in the garden having my tea, and my aunty walked in to the garden and started talking about her daughter, she is 27 and she have been going out with this guy for 6 years and everyone was happy that they have been together for 6 and and finally they were ready to tie the knot end of the year. All of sudden 2 weeks back my aunty receive a call from her daughter and the news was “mum, i think i dont want to get married now, lets wait 2 more year i want to see how it goes”. So being a caring mum she told the daughter to take leave and get down to JB so they can have a chat.

The conclusion of the chat was simple. The daughter told that even after 2 year she will marry him and if she thinks its not working out she will file for a divorce and she left to KL. Now my aunty asked me, How can i advice my daughter? Why is she taking it so lite about divorce that even before she could get married she already had the idea of divorce in her mind?

If you were in my shoes, what will you advice be?

mon

April 30, 2009 Posted by defining | Divorce, Personal | | No Comments Yet