How do i propose?

Well, after sometime i am writing again. I was away on a trip to Cambodia and just came back few days back. I will talk about the country in a later topic. For now lets talk about the title “How do i propose?” You know why i am talking about this, because i just proposed to my girlfriend on my trip to Cambodia and now she is my fiance, YES! she accepted the ring!

So if you are wondering how and what you can say or do before you pop the question to her “Will you marry me?” This is what you can do, just and idea for you.

You can take her out for a nice dinner, it does not have to be an expensive place but it need to be a quiet place so you can talk. So what can you talk to her?

First, talk about what ran in your head when you first met her, where you met her, what she was doing or what you were doing, you can start like, “When i first met you …….. , i thought you were……….”. You have to fill in the blanks.

Next, You can talk about your past and her past. Here you can talk about thing that went wrong or things that you have and want to improve with your life with her. Make this a short topic, don’t want her to be sad thinking about her past, so a short and quick one will do.

Make sure when you are talking about all this, you are very close to her, hold her hands and etc.

Next, by now you have spoke to her and told her when you saw her and your past. Now to make her feel nice, tell her when you actually realize that you want to spend your life with her. I am sure there was something that happen when you said to yourself “She is the one, i want to marry her”. Think hard you will know what is it. You say “You know the time you….., i knew at the time we were meant to be” This have to make her go soft on you.

Now, tell her how she had changed you to be a better person, something that you have now that you didn’t before you met her. Tell her “You know darling, before i met you, i was ……. . And now i am …..”.

Next, tell her what is it in her that you really appreciate and you wish to also be like her in the thing that she does. Tell her “I love and respect you for ……, it always makes me want to try to be like you on this”

OK, all this should take you at least an hour, now the final part comes talk to her on values that both of you share, talk to her about the dreams that both of you have. You can say “You know we both love….., and dream of……, so together we can …….”

Now you are all ready to pop the question to her, so how do you say it? remember to get down on bended knees and Tell her “And those are the reasons i am hoping you will spend the rest of your life with me and let me take care of you for the rest of my life. Will you marry me?”

Now, if everything goes as you wanted, she will say yes and you can put the ring on her finger, and the rest of the night will be a day in your life which you and your fiance will never forget…

Good Luck

Mon

Looking to buy a Diamond Ring?

Are you looking at buying a Diamond Ring? First time buyer? Yes i know how you feels, buying a Diamond can be a overwhelming experience as there are so many Diamonds out there and not all Diamonds are alike.

People talk about the 4C’s when you buy a Diamond, they are Cut, Color, Clarity and Carat but if you ask me we have to add another one in there, that is the COST.

Anyway out of this the most important part is? no not the cost but the Cut. The cut is the want that makes your Diamond shine, because using the right cut the light hitting the Diamond will reflect back through the top part of the Diamond. A Diamond with the best cut is call Ideal Cut Diamond, it is also knows as the worlds most beautiful Diamond.

Next, will be the color of the Diamond, they start from colorless to light yellow and it is range from D to Z. Here the colorless will be the most expensive ones.

Next will be the Clarity, here using a 10 power magnification you will be able to see something call inclusions in the Diamond and the best Diamond is call “flawless” which mean there is no inclusions at all. Then it is followed by VVS1 & VVS2 which falls under Very Very slight inclusions. next will be very slight inclusions which is know as VS1 & VS2 and the second last is Slight Inclusions – SI1 & SI2 and finally the I1,I2 and I3 being imperfect. VS1 & VS2 will be the middle range where the inclusions is very little.

And the next will be the Carat, this will be the weight of the Diamond, it starts from .20ct right up to 2.00 cts, it depends on your budget and the size of the finger of the person who is going to wear it. For my case, they were actually very very surprise with the finger size of my girlfriend, which was 3! The smallest they have done was 4. Any they were like asking me again and again to confirm before they re-size the ring to fit the size i wanted.

So if you are choosing a Diamond i would say please go for the Ideal cut, it ensures optimal brilliance,, scintillation and fire. Light is reflected back through the top in a rainbow blaze.

So the Diamond ring that i bought is called Lazare Diamond, They have a very nice cut and Lazare Diamond is the only Diamond that comes with a Certificate for a carat of .20ct, they have a laser technology which prints the logo and a serial number on to the Diamond which will be they proof of the ownership.

I hope from this little information i gave you can make out what Diamond to buy!

Happy Shopping!

Mon